Real Talk Recovery with Sober Coach LA
Honesty, self-awareness, and practical recovery techniques
Welcome to Sober Coach LA
My Journey - Real Talk Sobriety from the Ground Up
Hi, I’m Paul. I’ve been sober for 26 years, and I’m here to tell you that sobriety doesn’t have to mean losing your identity or conforming to rigid, judgmental systems. I didn’t get here by reciting slogans or fitting into someone else’s mold. I got here by being honest with myself, taking responsibility for my actions, and using real-world strategies to navigate life without alcohol.
When I walked into AA at just 25 years old, I was immediately judged. I could feel the skepticism—the looks that said, “You’re too young to be a real alcoholic,” or “You don’t really know what it’s like.” People who had decades of sobriety looked down on me, telling me how I had to stay sober, how I needed to “work a good program” or I’d end up relapsing. Ironically, many of those same people who gave me unsolicited advice ended up relapsing themselves.
I learned quickly that not everyone who claims to know the way actually lives it. Instead of being discouraged, I chose to take responsibility for my own sobriety. I wasn’t going to follow someone else’s roadmap just because they told me to. I made the decision to walk my own path, one rooted in honesty, self-awareness, and practical recovery techniques.
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Why I Take Responsibility for My Sobriety
One of the hardest truths I learned is that I am responsible for my own recovery. I can’t rely on someone else to keep me sober, and I can’t depend on a group to make my choices for me. It’s on me to do the work, to stay accountable, and to be honest with myself—even when it’s uncomfortable.
I don’t use AA slogans as a crutch, and I don’t believe in shaming people into sobriety. What keeps me grounded is honesty, resilience, and practical methods that actually work in the real world. I don’t blame others for my struggles, and I don’t let judgmental attitudes from other people dictate my journey.
That’s why my coaching is different. I don’t sit on a high horse and preach to you about how to live your life. I give you tools and strategies that fit your real-world challenges. Whether you still attend AA or not, I’ll help you build a recovery plan that makes sense for you.
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What I Believe - Real Talk Recovery
Sobriety is Personal: It’s not about following someone else’s rules or looking a certain way to impress others. It’s about being real and honest with yourself.
Judgment Is the Real Killer: Feeling judged and criticized pushes people away from recovery, and that’s unacceptable.
Recovery Is Responsibility: I take ownership of my life and my sobriety. I don’t put that on anyone else, and I help my clients do the same.
Real Support Doesn’t Abandon You: I don’t believe in firing sponsees or treating someone as a failure because they struggle. That’s not how you help people grow.
Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Sobriety Culture: I’m here to help you find your own path without being pushed into a rigid, judgmental framework.
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TESTIMONIALS
"To Thine Own Self Be True"
"Paul doesn’t just coach—he listens. He doesn’t fire you if you’re struggling or judge you for not being perfect. He helped me feel strong enough to go back to meetings and be real, without worrying about how others would judge me. That made all the difference."
- Allen - 2 yrs
"I Found Me Again"
"I was so tired of people telling me I wasn’t 'working a good program' just because I didn’t do things their way. Paul helped me see that recovery is mine to own, and that I don’t need to fit into someone else’s version of sobriety. He gave me the courage to be honest without fear."
- Luke - 4 yrs
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-------- Why Sober Coach LA? --------
Personalized One-on-One Support
Unlike group recovery programs, Sober Coach LA offers individualized coaching that focuses on your unique needs, triggers, and goals. Our approach ensures that every strategy is customized to your lifestyle, providing practical solutions for real-world challenges. Whether you require daily check-ins, structured accountability, or crisis intervention, we are there to support you every step of the way.
24/7 Confidential and Private
For professionals and public figures, maintaining privacy during recovery is essential. Our sober coaching services are fully confidential, allowing you to receive expert guidance without the exposure of group meetings. Whether you need remote coaching or in-person support, our discreet approach ensures you can focus on recovery while maintaining your professional and personal commitments.
Tailored for High Achievers
Sober Coach LA understands the pressures that come with high-stress careers. We specialize in helping executives, entrepreneurs, and high-performance individuals navigate recovery without disrupting their professional lives. Our strategies incorporate stress management, productivity techniques, and sober success planning, ensuring that recovery aligns seamlessly with your career and lifestyle.
Modern Recovery Methods
Unlike traditional 12-step programs that may feel outdated or restrictive, Sober Coach LA integrates modern, evidence-based strategies for lasting sobriety. We use a combination of behavioral therapy techniques, mindfulness training, structured goal setting, and lifestyle coaching to help clients maintain a balanced and fulfilling life without addiction.
Personalized Schedule
Many recovery programs take individuals out of their everyday environments, only to send them back without tools to navigate real-life challenges. We offer on-demand coaching for high-pressure situations, such as business trips, social events, and daily stressors. Our goal is to empower you with practical skills to maintain sobriety in real-world scenarios.
Proven Success with Lasting Results
Traditional recovery programs often struggle with high relapse rates. Our approach is designed for sustainable success, focusing on long-term recovery rather than temporary sobriety. We build a roadmap tailored to your personal and professional growth, ensuring sobriety is a permanent lifestyle change, not just a short-term goal.
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Real-Life Strategies Without the Judgement
Single Session (1 Hour): $200 - Ideal for quick, focused support or tackling immediate challenges.
4 Weekly Sessions (1 Month Package): $750 (Save $50) - Regular support to build momentum and keep you on track.
2 Sessions Per Week (8 Sessions/Month): $1,300 (Save $200) - Intensive support for those needing consistent guidance.
On-Demand Emergency Session: $200: Immediate help when cravings or challenges hit.
Confidentiality and Privacy - NDAs Available: Whether you’re a public figure, a professional, or just value your privacy, you can trust that everything discussed during our coaching sessions remains strictly confidential.
Sober companion rates available for daily, 24/7 overnight, one week, or one month. Call 310-384-8253 for rates.
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