Are you tired of fluffy slogans, cult-like rituals, and being told to “let go and let God” when what you really need is practical, real-world support?
I get it. My name is Paul, and I’ve been sober for 26 years through a combination of AA and real-life experience. I know what it’s like to navigate sobriety when traditional methods don’t fit your life or mindset.
While I have deep respect for Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and acknowledge that it saved my life, I also know that AA is losing its way for many people. It’s become overly rigid and cliché-driven, and sometimes feels more like a cult than a community. That’s why I offer something different—Real Talk Recovery.
If you’re ready to take back control of your life without surrendering your identity or autonomy, you’re in the right place. I’m here to help you build a sober life that’s authentic, sustainable, and uniquely yours. No judgment, no preaching—just practical, no-nonsense support.
Real Talk: No fluff, no clichés—just honest conversations about what really works.
Personalized Strategies: Every client is unique, and your plan should reflect what works for you.
Respect for Your Journey: Whether you’re using AA or looking for something entirely new, I respect your path.
Real-Life Application: Practical steps that work in real-world situations.
I've spent 20 years in corporate America: I understand the need to progress and enjoy life.
I’ve walked this path for over two and a half decades, and I’ve seen it all—the highs, the lows, and everything in between. I didn’t get here by repeating empty slogans or surrendering my life to rigid routines. I stayed sober by figuring out what works for me—keeping it real, staying accountable, and not letting myself get caught up in all the noise.
My approach is simple—honesty and practicality over dogma and clichés. I’m not going to lecture you or make you feel small. I’ll give you the tools to take charge of your own recovery without losing yourself in the process. Whether it’s dealing with cravings, navigating social situations, or finding balance without drinking, I’ve been there—and I know how to help you push through.
Sobriety isn’t one-size-fits-all, and your story is uniquely yours. I respect your experiences and never assume I know better. Whether you’re fully into AA or just looking for something different, I’m here to help you build your own path. Real recovery means finding your voice and your way forward.
"No BS Here"
"Paul doesn’t sugarcoat anything—and that’s exactly what I needed. His no-nonsense approach gave me the push to find my own way while feeling supported the whole time."
- Mike - 3 yrs
"My life changed forever"
"After years of trying to fit into AA’s rigid methods, Paul’s approach was like a breath of fresh air. No judgment, just real talk and real support.."
- John - 8 yrs
"Highly recommended"
"26 years sober? That kind of dedication is rare. Paul helped me see that sobriety isn’t about perfection—it’s about resilience and staying true to yourself.."
- Matt - 1 yr
One of the most common challenges people face with AA is its religious undertone. While the program technically allows you to define your own “Higher Power,” the reality is that many meetings lean heavily toward Christian-based language and ideology.
AA’s structure is often rigid, with an emphasis on conformity and following steps in a specific way. While structure can be helpful, not everyone thrives in an environment that feels inflexible or judgmental.
Phrases like “Let Go and Let God” or “One Day at a Time” can be helpful mantras for some, but for others, they feel empty and repetitive. These slogans may not provide real, practical guidance when you’re facing a craving at 2 AM or dealing with life’s tough situations.
For those of us who are atheists, agnostics, or simply not religious or looking for spirituality in new age ideas, this can feel alienating and uncomfortable. It may even push some people away from getting the support they need. At Sober Coach LA, we respect all beliefs and help you find practical, non-religious strategies to stay sober.
Some sponsors may even become overbearing, pushing their own methods or beliefs without truly understanding your unique situation. This can leave you feeling misunderstood or even judged, making recovery feel more like a burden than a path to freedom.
What’s missing is the real-world application—how do you actually stay sober in the face of real challenges? At Sober Coach LA, I cut through the clichés and focus on actionable strategies that keep you on track.
Unlike group recovery programs, Sober Coach LA offers individualized coaching that focuses on your unique needs, triggers, and goals. Our approach ensures that every strategy is customized to your lifestyle, providing practical solutions for real-world challenges. Whether you require daily check-ins, structured accountability, or crisis intervention, I am there to support you every step of the way.
For professionals and public figures, maintaining privacy during recovery is essential. My sober coaching services are fully confidential, allowing you to receive expert guidance without the exposure of group meetings. Whether you need remote coaching or in-person support, my discreet approach ensures you can focus on recovery while maintaining your professional and personal commitments.
Sober Coach LA understands the pressures that come with high-stress careers. I specialize in helping executives, entrepreneurs, and high-performance individuals navigate recovery without disrupting their professional lives. Our strategies incorporate stress management, productivity techniques, and sober success planning, ensuring that recovery aligns seamlessly with your career and lifestyle.
Unlike traditional 12-step programs that may feel outdated or restrictive, Sober Coach LA integrates modern, evidence-based strategies for lasting sobriety. I use a combination of behavioral therapy techniques, mindfulness training, structured goal setting, and lifestyle coaching to help clients maintain a balanced and fulfilling life without addiction.
Many recovery programs take individuals out of their everyday environments, only to send them back without tools to navigate real-life challenges. We offer on-demand coaching for high-pressure situations, such as business trips, social events, and daily stressors. My goal is to empower you with practical skills to maintain sobriety in real-world scenarios.
Traditional recovery programs often struggle with high relapse rates. My approach is designed for sustainable success, focusing on long-term recovery rather than temporary sobriety. I build a roadmap tailored to your personal and professional growth, ensuring sobriety is a permanent lifestyle change, not just a short-term goal.
Single Session (1 Hour): $200 - Ideal for quick, focused support or tackling immediate challenges.
4 Weekly Sessions (1 Month Package): $750 (Save $50) - Regular support to build momentum and keep you on track.
2 Sessions Per Week (8 Sessions/Month): $1,300 (Save $200) - Intensive support for those needing consistent guidance.
On-Demand Emergency Session: $200: Immediate help when cravings or challenges hit.
Confidentiality and Privacy - NDAs Available: Whether you’re a public figure, a professional, or just value your privacy, you can trust that everything discussed during our coaching sessions remains strictly confidential.
Sober companion rates available for daily, 24/7 overnight, one week, or one month. Call 310-384-8253 for rates.
Expert sober coaching in Los Angeles. Confidential 24/7 support for professionals & executives committed to lasting recovery.
As a sober companion I provide 24/7 support, structure, and accountability, helping professionals maintain sobriety and thrive in recovery.
Experience structure, accountability, and a supportive community through sober living—and I will help you get through this situation and find the best for you.
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